oeke (and catsy) and siem: 20 years of my life
oeke

oeke came to live with me in 1974 and died 1994 the very day folly came to live with us i have always been extreemly close to oeke, in fact my first lover said - when he left me after five years: "oeke ha gaņado" (oeke has won) when i came back from berlin in 1994, oeke had been lying in a corner in the house, not eating, not moving, just waiting for me to come home, say goodbye, and... die really peculiar is that this was the same day - and before i knew oeke would die - that folly came to live with us strange was that i went to bury oeke in my parents' garden, and on the way picked up folly, while burying oeke, folly was playing around in the garden

oeke and siem 1994
oeke and siem (and me) at my roof top terrace
this is 1994, the year both of them died
oeke almost 20 years old here and nub 17 years of age
siem

siem came with us, at leiden at that time, in 1977, just walked into the house and decided to stay siem has always been a lovely friend to me and all those that visited me he also died 1994 (he spent a few months together with folly) he did this different from oeke: one late night he walked out of the house, never to return i knew he went away, that night, to die..: he was old, and felt, as one could see by then, very ill he must have gone to find a place to hide from his pains, and to die i had just cleaned his litter box, but it was never used again, and i left it standing there until ed moved in siem was cute, fun, and a friend to all

 

catsy

i must mention catsy here; catsy came to live with me at the same time as oeke: they were brothers
also catsy moved with me to leiden, but a big problem started there: one of his testicles could not be removed and he started to pee his smell everywhere, again and again; apart from that he was never a happy cat, so one day (in 1976) he walked out of our home at leiden, korte mare; the same place where siem walked in, after i had moved elsewhere since; the owners of the house actually thought that catsy had come back, so they phoned me, and i came to see: but there was an enourmous difference: siem was very friendly, and catsy had never been friendly, i knew from the start that there was another cat here...
years after i walked a canal nearby my old home there and actually saw catsy again, i called him, he recongnized me, but didn't come to me; i am sure that he'd found a good home there at leiden